I love apple picking in the Fall! My husband and I took our kids out to an apple orchard every fall to pick apples. (If Mom liked it, then everyone got to join in the fun.) Applesauce, apple pies, fried apples, apple chutney – you need an apple recipe, I probably have it. Besides a feast of fruit, we also used this opportunity to teach some basic theology. The question we discussed one fine Fall day was, how do you know if someone is a Christian? What do apples and Christians have in common? Glad you asked!
Scripture teaches that you will know a Christian by their fruit. Galatians 5:22,23, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”
Fruit is referring to what is produced out of the life of a believer who is filled and walking in the Spirit. If I have come to Christ as my Savior, then God has deposited within me His Spirit (2 Cor. 1:21,22) and in fact, the Spirit of God within me is proof that I am a believer (Romans 8:9). But in explaining this to children, how do you explain to a child someone they can not see? Children won’t argue that the Spirit exists, as most children have vivid imaginations and live in the world of all-things-possible. But they will want to know, what is the Holy Spirit like and how can I know if I have the Spirit?
The Spirit is likened to fruit. When we went to an orchard, there were pears, apples, pumpkins and corn that we could choose from the harvest. We could easily tell what type of plant we are looking at because we could see the fruit. How do I know if we are picking from an Apple tree? Because there are apples. How do I know if I am picking from a Pear tree? Because there are pears. Trees bear the type of fruit that is in their DNA; the fruit bears witness to what type of tree it is.
Same for believers – what kind of a person am I – a believing person or a non-believing person? The answer isn’t how many bible verses you can quote (though memorizing scripture is important) nor how much doctrine you can explain (though solid doctrine is important). More important than knowledge is the character that is produced as a result of faith. Do you want to know if someone knows Christ? Then you should SEE their faith.
One of the characteristics of a believer should be the fruit of gentleness. Gentleness is described in scripture as both a believer trait as well as something we can do. If you do a study of gentleness (sometimes translated meekness), you can find 4 thematic qualities that help define it:
- Gentleness is NOT harsh – calm and kind in demeanor
- Gentleness is NOT thoughtless – considers the other person more than one’s self
- Gentleness IS protective – cares for the welfare of others
- Gentleness IS powerful – strength under control
The Baker’s Evangelical Dictionary of Biblical Theology defines gentleness as, ”Sensitivity of disposition and kindness of behavior, founded on strength and prompted by love.”
The fruit of gentleness has for the many centuries been touted as a key characteristic of faithful believers. Jonathan Edwards said, “All who are truly godly and are real disciples of Christ have a gentle spirit in them.” Jesus was described as the gentle King (Matthew 11:29); Paul defined his ministry to the church in Thessalonica as gentle as a mother caring for her little children and in Philippians; Paul gives a final charge to Timothy to pursue gentleness and finally, Paul urges everyone “to let your gentleness be evident to all.”
How important is the spiritual fruit of gentleness? I’d suggest very!
Dear Reader, grabbing every opportunity as a teachable moment to help our children know and appreciate theological truth is a great habit to get into. And besides our children, it’s good for us. Are you going to eat a piece of fruit today? As you do, remind yourself that the fruit the Spirit produces in you is an indicator of how your relationship with God is going. Are you walking with Him closely? Do a fruit check! And start with the fruit of gentleness.
Gentleness fruit check – NOT harsh, NOT thoughtless, IS protective, IS powerful: does this describe you?
May we today be obedient to the challenge Paul gives all believers, “May your gentleness be evident to all.” And I pray others will be gentle with you.
Fondly yours with gentle blessings! Elizabeth