Very few topics in the Christian Faith elicit more controversy than the topic of prayer, often because of the big “what if I don’t” questions.
- What if I don’t pray the right words?
- What if I don’t pray enough?
- What if I don’t approach God with the correct mindset or posture?
- What if I don’t……?
Sadly, we often treat God like we do a formula for good leadership development. We want a “to do” list that we can check off and when we get all those tiny boxes marked, we know success is right around the corner. If I can do it “right”, then God will answer all my prayers in ways that bring me emotional comfort or physical prosperity – I’ll get that job; bills will get paid; the sick will be healed on earth; my worries will disappear.
The problem with this thinking toward prayer is that it is not Christianly; we are making bargains with God, setting up a contract, rather than furthering our relationship with Him. It does not take into account what God Himself wants when we pray.
What does God want when we pray? Jesus tells us what He doesn’t want. “When you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him” (Matthew 6:7-8). I love that God can hear our prayers without a single word from us. “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans” (Romans 8:26).
It is in this understanding – that it is not our words that God desires, but us (ourselves) – that we are reminded that prayer is communion within the Trinity where
- God the Father already sees and knows all about what we feel, what we think, and what we’re going through.
- Jesus the Son has made the way for us to stay in constant communion with God through His perfect life, sacrificial death, and victorious resurrection and He Himself makes constant intercession for us before the throne (“He is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them” Hebrews 7:25 ). Jesus never stops praying for us.
- The Holy Spirit fills and works within us, to intercede through us and on our behalf before the presence of God Almighty.
God brings His whole self into prayer and He wants nothing less from us.
Prayer is the privilege of being a child of the King, knowing we can fling ourselves into the throne room at any time. Much as a young child who has a loving father knows that they can interrupt their Dad at any time for any reason, we can be assured there is no small problem which exists in the eyes of our Heavenly Father. Big or small requests, big or small praises, big or small confessions, He desires we bring all of ourselves to all of Him.
What does God want out of prayer? Us! When we come and talk with Him, we show Him we trust Him, we affirm that He is able, and we are comforted, corrected, and consoled by God Himself. Our relationship with God is strengthened and our minds are turned toward eternity. Because of prayer, we are now ready to resist the enemy, survive the storms, and walk in a peace that passes any human’s understanding (“And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” Philippians 4:7).
Dear Reader, will you pray constantly as scripture commands today (‘Pray continually” 1 Thessalonians 5:17)? Because prayer is not a “to do” list but instead a “turn to” relationship with God, then you are praying continually as you consistently bring God to mind throughout the day, talking with Him in a perpetual conversation, praising His provision, asking for His accommodations, and confessing your faults. Forgiveness, peace, and joy are readily available to all who abide in Christ, in the presence of the Father and are filled with His Spirit. In this relationship, we find prayer.
May God bless you richly today as you allow the One who loves you more than anything else He has created, be your biggest blessing and answer to your prayers.
In Him, For Him, and Through Him, yours fondly – Elizabeth
A parents’ prayer before the throne of God is a powerful tool in their child’s life. The well-quoted preacher from the 1800’s, Charles Haddon Spurgeon, had a mother who prayed for him tirelessly and counseled him wisely, seeking God’s work of chastisement and repentance in the life of her sons. We may consider her as a godly example for how we may intercede on behalf of our children. Spurgeon said this of his mother, “I cannot tell how much I owe to the solemn words of my good mother.” Spurgeon’s brother said of their mother, “She was the starting point of all the greatness and goodness any of us, by the grace of God, have ever enjoyed.”
May we as parents seek God and His kingdom first so we are filled with His goodness and wisdom as we speak to and pray for our children; it is God’s heart that takes precedence in our work of prayer on their behalf.